For the Russian sins of suspicion, hyper-vigilance and rigidity
Tony Montana commenting to mentalblog.com: Russian BTs from a female perspective:
I have a few diverse and unconnected points to add which are all really separate posts (for whatever it's worth).
One: This stereotyping of Russian BTs has some truth to it, but its about as accurate as joking that all American BTs are granola-crunching ex-Dead Heads. I've known plenty of Russian BTs who are sensitive, deep, soft-spoken and don't even know how to drink vodka. Even coming from a common culture, different personality types always emerge. What I will say is that without exception, anybody who spent any amount of their formative years in the Soviet Union is, to some degree, emotionally disturbed. Some over-compensate and re-adjust better than others, but no one walked away from that place without deep emotional scars. What I'm talking about is not the Russian cultural idiosyncrasies of pretentiousness, stubbornness, bravado, etc. but the symptomatic characteristics of post-traumatic-stress-syndrome from living in a totalitarian society, namely suspicion, hyper-vigilance and rigidity. I would be interested to know if the old Russians who had some vestige of cultural connection to pre-Soviet Russia were possessed of these same foibles. It is rather hard to know, just like one wonders if being a pugnacious ingrate was a common trait amongst American Blacks before they were concentrated into the industrial ghettos.
Further, I would postulate that many of today�s Russian BTs are a different breed than those of the lameds and mems. In those days, the BTs were revolutionaries who practiced defiance through dabbling in Yiddishkeit. There is absolutely no comparing pre-perestroika Refusenik iconoclasts to today�s �BTs-by-default� who have comfortably fallen into a pre-set sub-cultural framework. Most of today�s Russian BTs (I�m not talking about the Chabad House mekurovim all over the country, but rather the sirtuk-wearing card-carrying Lubavitchers) are messianist, which suits their post-Soviet disorder on two counts. One, it reinforces their need to be distrustful of authority by sneering at the premise of a centralized system. Two, it meets an even more deep-seated, unspoken need to aggrandize their leaders into a generalissimo. [file this under mentalblog.com: The dog days of Brighton]
Now, for my second point:
Just so you can sleep a wee bit easier tonight, I will tell you that from reading the young lady's post, I gather that she is not so young. This is no wild-child girl hell-bent on throwing away her innocence. She is nearing middle age and her Russian BT 'friends' are not elterer bocherim with yellow lapel pins. They are a bunch of Chabad House mekurovim also in their 40s, probably divorced from non-Jewish wives.
However (my third point):
While writing about her personal indiscretions amongst Russian BT men, the poster reveals much more about the sub-culture of which she speaks than she is aware.What is of interest to me is not whether or not they have 'bad breath and rotting teeth,' but that she describes a social network of so-called 'baalei teshuvah' who seem to engage regularly in behavior that exemplifies wanton prikus-oyl. So superficial is their brand of �teshuvah� that one could behave like a shikkurer goy and still identify as baalei teshuvah. Indeed, Tzemach, file this under the post 'Woodstock in Uman', for they are two outbreaks within the same epidemic. Once upon a time, Jewish outreach was a cottage industry. The purveyors were either authentic (if not eloquent) communicators, or if not, then at least, possessed of some sense of accountability. Now, (thank G-d), Judaism is available as never before to the masses. But with that comes the Lord of the Flies syndrome I once referred to on this blog (see mentalblog.com: The gym that was once 770).





