Shneorson Laundry
Hmm, Shneorson? I am not Shneorson. Manager: no, you look the same! So I tell her to make a real receipt for me but I am keeping the Shneorson receipt. Strange, I don�t look typical anything. We have to find that Gil Shneorson.
"cast me forth into the sea, so shall the sea be calm unto you"
Jews like to say how important it is to be a mentch. Let me paraphrase this, it is important to maintain humanity in our interactions with fellow humans. There are destructive forces in the Jewish religion or more accurately the way Jews like to interpret the Jewish religion. One of the most unhelpful concepts is the entire Loshen Hora caboodle. This is most caustic notion that stops humanity and the flow of conversation in it't tracks. But there are many other examples. Nurture your humanity; resist fascist enforcers of the speech code. Let it flow, cherish your friendships, make time to talk to your friends. Be supportive, praise, encourage imagination, criticize and render stagnation.
It looks like the Australian Gornes don't mind the publicity. See the last comment here. I think they are not too concerned to be censured by a head shliach ;-). Perhaps it is time to bring Shoshanna Silicove to clarify the mazav, no, no, kidding, perish the thought. But seriously on the subject on the controversial institution of a head Shaliaich, particularly in light of the widespread opinion that the institution of the head Shaliach might be illegitimate, not authorized by the Rebbe, invitation to abuse, etc. can the Australian Groners shed any light on this subject. I mean it seriously without prejudging the question (or the answer). Or may be I am overestimating the blog that like many other family blogs looks like a place for the bored homebound chicks to swap family portraits. Seriously is there a place for coherent dialogue about the state of Chabad in Australia? This comment might be a good starting point.
Tolerance for mediocrity has reached unacceptable levels. People expect boring and unimaginative life. Jews have resigned from the pursuit of meaning. Hasidism has turned into parrot regurgitating. We must destroy the false legacy, it is killing our souls. Daloy Chabad, Daloy Misnagdim, Daloy Brelsov, Daloy Satmar, Daloy Rabbis without imagination. The Rebbe failed. The elephant in the room is that no matter how many Shluchim, corporate or otherwise, will go into the world they have no message, no product. They preach air. The idea has died with the Rebbe and there is no pretending that it still has any vitality or that it represents a cohesive vision. Heck it never was cohesive even when the Rebbe was here. He knew it too, that�s why he wanted the Moshiah to bail us all out, but bingo, the pawn shop owner came calling.
The G-d of Israel is mum. This is most devastating reality. The G-d has concealed himself. We must start over.
"Whether or not the Internet proves helpful or hurtful or a bit of both, most community observers say the Web has forever changed the way Orthodox individuals interact with the world.
"The Internet poses an incredibly serious threat to the status quo in these communities � as it does to any society that controls information and suppresses public dissent," said Hella Winston, a sociologist and author of "Unchosen: The Hidden Lives of Hasidic Rebels."
"The fact that David Framowitz was able to connect with UOJ from half a world away, in only a few seconds, is nothing short of revolutionary," she said."
Today there is a North Eastern regional Shluchim convention here in Cambridge. Reb Yudel and about 80 Shluchim are in attendance. There is this dubious choice of a venue that says a lot about the direction the things are going (between the oligarchs and the middle managers).
So I went to lunch with one of the Shluchim. When I gave him a ride back he asked to be dropped off on the corner so nobody would see he was with me.
I know there is a farbrengen now. And the truth is I would love to go to hang out with the hevra, this is where my heart fits naturally. But in my brain I know that what I will hear will be a bitter unbearable disappointment. My bitterness might spur the creative juices and there will be a nice post, perhaps even some photos but all at the cost of a big gaping hole in my spirit. Indeed where do we go from here? The Foundation has collapsed.
This is a graphical representation of mentalblog.com web site mapped according to the clusters of HTML tags. Aharef is the creator of the code, see there some of the famous sites he mapped. You can also map your site at HTML DOM Visualizer Applet.
Do you get it now? Your house to website analogies is an unimaginative drivel. Web is a garden, a forest, a flower bed. It is not a tent, a house or a neighborhood. It has no walls, no doors, no windows and no rooms. It grows organically and enters into wonderful symbiosis with the creative impulses all other the universe. Get over the old metaphors, they are pathetic and inadequate.
Douglas Bowman, the creator of some of the Blogger templates including the one used by this blog is Going to Google to assume a new position of Visual Design Lead. By the way I am tired of the dark blue background, I would also would like to move to Wordpress as a platform but every Wordpress theme that I have seen can't match the design clarity of the Doug Bowman template I use on this blog.
Earlier this year, Microsoft released betas of Office 2007, and the first thing reviewers noticed, besides the new interface, was that Times New Roman had been deposed as the default font with something called . . . Calibri? fadtastic: How�d Times reach such saturation?
Matisyahu might have arrived but it is a time for us to depart. Since Matisyahu uplifts B.B. King blues club we debated pros and cons of the venues and the music. My mental notes from the Matisyahu at Bank of America Pavilion:
I don't understand his music. I am not moved by the beat or melody (lack thereof). I am told it is the slow beat in style of Phish. Perhaps. The happening is still fun but with increasingly uncomfortable undertones. What I saw at the pavilion was a decidedly not for children setting. There was a cloud of pot smoke hovering above the entire open tent area. Perhaps half in attendance where in various stages of intoxication. My gentile coworker who went to the concert with her 16 year old son (trust me this kid have been places) said that her son was "grossed out by a middle aged couple making out in plain view". In this context Matisyahu drivel about lighting up your cell phones amidst of darkness, blah, blah, seemed like a light weight pop that his music has become.
P.S. That Sicilian girl was fabulous though!
Tony Montana writes: "The first few waves of Shluchim were sent to set things up for further waves in the development of the Rebbe's vision (the one that Prof. Simon attributes to the Rebbe's reading of an Asimov novel)."
The reference I assume is to the letter Simon Jacobson received from Nechama Cohen of Tamiment, PA. She describes sidewalk conversations when she was a child growing in Crown Heights with the future Rebbe she called Mister Menachem:
"Mr. Menachem always asked me what books I was reading. When I was seven � Spring of �48 I think � I discovered Science Fiction in the library on Schenectady. I loved it. I gave him rave reviews of two authors, Robert Heinlein and Isaac Asimov. He was intrigued by the idea of teaching children science through fun-to-read novels. I always told him he should read them, that he would love them. He always told me that he only read Jewish books. Then one day, a year or more later, I told him about Asimov�s book �Foundation�. If you haven�t read Asimov�s Foundation Series then I should tell you it�s about a secret foundation set up by a psychohistorian name Hari Seldon. The purpose of psychohistory and the Foundation was to perfect the Universe. Which is basically what I told him.
Anyway, Mr. Menachem later told me he read the book � which floored me � and told me to concentrate on Asimov, not Heinlin. [And he was right.] He then went on to tell me he�d written to Asimov and had gotten a reply. I was thrilled � that Asimov thought enough of him to write back [Told you I didn�t know who I was talking to. At that point I had no concept of what he truly was, much less what he would become.] He was corresponding with Asimov, and as far as I was concerned that was even better that writing to Jackie Robinson, which I think I told him.
Then he asked me what I thought of the idea of setting up a foundation. I thought it was better than Asimov and Robinson combined and told him so. He then told me he was setting up a foundation. I was so excited I started jumping up and down, telling him I wanted to join, please, please, please. He said I could. Well, he did set it up, and I did join for a while. He was talking about Chabad and his shluchim. Maybe other things that I haven�t found out yet. Who knows?"
So we know that in addition to mystery books see Ellery Queen & Reb Minna Gourary, the Rebbe read science fiction. The hero of Asimov�s Foundation Harry Seldon predicted the right time and place, using psychohistory, to set up a new society, one that would replace the collapsing Galactic Empire over a thousand-year time span. We know that the Rebbe operated on that scale and it is not unlikely that the novel was inspirational.
(of interest is September 25, 1987, Asimov's audio interviewed with Terry Gross for the NPR.)Mendelbomb commenting to An ostensibly Chasidic worldview
Enough of this power to the people vs. power to the g-d appointed monarchy. That is an outdated paradigm that was good when Shlichus started out with one person going to a place (with frum people without frum people) to spread yiddishkeit. This remained as such until recently because of the financial obstacles, manpower and acceptance by the larger Jewish community.
This has bred a Shlichus model, that is entrepreneurial and one dimensional. Limited to what one person can do in a lifetime. This culture has shaped the way employers see their obligations and the way prospective employees perceive their positions.
This must change; we need to create a more corporate model that allows for expansion, with bosses and employees each knowing their place. Head Shluchim need to be replaced by boards of regional Shluchim that elect a CEO, local Shluchim need to build departmentalized mosdos that allow personal expression and autonomy for the head of each department. A more professional attitude with generally accepted standards will solve the problems of minimal new positions where instead of a position for life there is room to move up the corporate ladder hiring new people under you to expand your department. (Great example from the federation)
This will also facilitate moving from one place in Shlichus to another, as your qualifications, experience, and thus mission in life changes. Thus, eliminating the kind of abuses that are not so common in the Shlichus community.
Tony Montana commenting to An ostensibly Chasidic worldview:
Schneur, I adapt my previous statement. You're right. The Shluchim of the lameds and even mems were not the only frumer Jews in town. But my point remains the same.
The first few waves of Shluchim were sent to set things up for further waves in the development of the Rebbe's vision (the one that Prof. Simon attributes to the Rebbe's reading of an Asimov novel). The predominant culture in Lubavitch (to be distinguished from the true chasidus) developed over the years into one of emphasizing the superficiality of what Shlichus entailed in the early days i.e.: setting up your own mosdos, cultivating gvirim, making new contacts, gaining acceptance in the community. So the fantasy of Shlichus became a romantic notion that this is what Shlichus is: to be a trailblazer, a pioneer. But that was merely the form that Shlichus took on, not the essence. The essence was bitul tzum Rebb'n, in whatever form that would take. But the masses bought into the form and made it an icon, held it out on a stick to motivate themselves and their children.
In dor shishi, mesirus nefesh meant not ratting out your friends even when the KGB smashed a bottle over your head and cut off your inyonim. In the lameds and mems, mesirus nefesh meant building mosdos from scratch on karka besula. In the nuns, and more so the samachs, mesirus nefesh means not being an egotistical megalomaniac who pronounces his independence from the corrupt system because he knows better what the Rebbe really wants. It takes a moiridikke bitul not to fantasize about overrunning those old Head Shluchim. But if you signed up for the job, remember, what you signed up for. YOU wanted to be the meshaleach's arm! You could have gone into business or gotten a degree. YOU volunteered. And I am sorry if your mashpi'im in yeshiva and your forty-five year old uncle from Florida with the tchup and tweed sport coat sold you a bill of goods. You should've read the Rebbe's sichos and found out what Shlichus really is. I blame your educators, but it's not an excuse you can carry through life. Shlichus was not invented so you could live in the suburbs and feel comfortable talking to women in pants about their personal problems.
And there are repercussions of this not just in the world of Shlichus but in aveidas HaSh-m as well. So many yungeleit did not apply themselves in yeshiva because they relied on this dream of "going out," assured that the title of shliach would suddenly uplift them into a metzius despite their lack of learning or avodah. Since the time they were head counselors in Gan Izzy, they had one thing on their mind, "In the land of the blind, the one eyed man is king!" I will go out, be the only Lubavitcher in town and I will be the manhig, the adored mentor of my community. Now it's time for reality. You're sitting in kollel and fantasizing about having your own shetach to spread out in. And that ain't the reality. And they're heart-broken to discover (or in denial of the fact) that the times now demand a DIFFERENT kind of mesirus nefesh. The mesirus nefesh is now to get along, do your job, and concentrate on the neshomeis for which you're responsible (or even sometimes co-responsible).
You think this doesn't affect the quality of their work and clarity of their vision, all this pissing on fire hydrants to mark territory?! There's room for thousands of more shluchim! How many people work for Federations all over America? There's room for everybody! But you ain't gonna be the sherriff in town.
And as far as nepotism, I don't want to hear that charge. Open a Tzach list and go count all the non-gezha names of Shluchim. Ay, they aren't head Shluchim! Those jobs aren't open. But neither is building a secret mikveh in your cellar or running an underground yeshiva. You can wish all you want to have born in a different era, but it'll never be. If what you truly want is shlichus, then know what that means: NOT what they told you in Ohelei Torah farbrengens.
berl, crown heights: Tony, a very good articulation of Teiras Detroit. They should really hire you as their Propaganda Minister. However, your approach amounts to a one-sided utopia with the 'head sheluchim' getting a cart-blanch to abuse their 'hired help', treat them as glorified gofers and spit them out when they become too expensive to support (and like any good feudal lords, they get to bequeath the privileges of to their progeny). No yungerman should feel compelled to subject himself and his family to this kind of treatment. So let�s get it straight: the reason yungeleit want a sense of independence is not so much to assert themselves, but rather to shield themselves from this rampant abuse. Btw, telling young idealistic people that submission to this maltreatment is dem Reb�ns rotzein noch dertzu is just plain evil.
P.S. According to your Theory of Evolution of Mesirras Nefesh, what form does the mesirras nefesh of the Bosses take in this generation?
Tony Montana: So what do you suggest, Berl. Everyone should just do whatever the heck they want? I know that's what Prof. Simon believes and what Sholom Mendel Simpson believes and what the Kupchiks believe. But don't tell me honestly that that is what YOU believe. You're just frustrated with the system. Nu? Everyone is. So that's a reason for hefkeirus. Go take a walk down to the high school gym that was once 770 and tell me that self-management works.
I'm enjoying the ahavas-reyim-dikkeh banter, but I want to return to the issue. What do you do with an imperfect system that allows for abuses? Historically, when a political system becomes corrupt enough and the disenfranchised become desperate enough, you make a revolution. (BTW, whenever I am drinking Smirnoff, I often chuckle when reading "Purveyors to the Imperial Russian Court 1886-1917." I guess after being lined up and shot, you can't really drink vodka anymore.) Or, you can work within the system for change. There is never assurance that you'll work out all the kinks, but at least your not going through the whiplash of Thermidorian Reactions every twenty years. So you're faced with a choice: reformation or revolution? (TA, calm down, I can feel your nihilist streak getting aroused. "Trash the whole damn thing! Argh!") But let's examine the prospect of revolution analytically.
Historically, revolutions are generally not good. The Romanovs were replaced by Bolshevism. The Bourbons were replaced by Jacobeanism. And raboseinu nisieinu (l'havdil) are threatened with being replaced by Yellowism.
Now, to us good red-blooded Americans and naturalized citizens (k'ger k'ezroch), we sort of like the idea of overthrowing monarchies. Monarchies are bad, right? The only thing is that Yiddishkeit is a theocratic monarchy. Whether you're talking in the halachic sense, i.e.: a Davidic king or Exilarch of Babylon, or in the mystical sense i.e.: a Chassidic Rebbe. (BTW see the book by Yosef Heller - not Catch 22 - from pre-Gimmel Tamuz lifnei hatzimtzum where he suggests that there's not too much difference between the former and the latter).
So let's say you're fed up with the sovereign and his royal court. Let's say you're resentful that you were gezha and rich but never let into the official system. What do you do? Foment revolution. Don't worry. You won't have to fight. There will always be an endless supply of sefardic baalei teshuva with undiagnosed mental disorders and disgruntled CH balabatim who can't pay their mortgages and are nearly illiterate in two languages and wide-eyed, energetic teenage boys. Indoctrinate them; tell them this is what G-d wants. They will fight your revolution for you.
Indeed, like most revolutionary movements, you will need a powerful mystical message. The message will have to fuse new radicalism with a sense of homage for the nostalgic past. You'll have to convince the masses, some of whom are even intellectuals, that the new isn't really new. It's our historical destiny. In come the masters of indoctrination - disenfranchised intellectuals who either have an axe to grind or are just so blase they don't mind whoring themselves out for a little respect.
I fear the revolution and the brutality it would bring. When ch"v the last vestiges of the monarchy are laid to ruin, we will not be free, but quite the opposite.
Of course, chasidus is not a country. When the revolution comes, you can always just leave. But go where? A man without a country or home.
If you are discontent with the system, I beg you, demand reform. Hold the king's courtiers accountable. Make them answerable. But do not lay down for the awful revolution.
Tony Montana commenting to Shlichus and the culture of entrepreneurship:
The supplanting of "rugged American individualism" into an ostensibly chasidic worldview is a fascinating Lubavitcher cultural phenomenon. Over the years, Shlichus became to Lubavitcher kids much what becoming a professional athlete is for blacks in the ghetto - a shot at stardom, a way out of depressing urban apartment living.
But Shlichus was never supposed to be about self-aggrandizement or spreading your wings. It was supposed to be mesirus nefesh. Once upon a time, mesirus nefesh was being the only frumer yid in your town, living on sardines and matzos and not having enough money to make Shabbos. Today, the mesiras nefesh means NOT telling your boss "F" you and running off to set up your own Chai Center. But that mesirus nefesh is far less romantic, isn't it?
Yes! NOT telling your boss.
The true mesirus nefesh is putting your ego aside and adhering to the system. That was the whole point of my post. Folks got wrapped up in the chitzonius levush of shlichus (what I call the "rugged individualism"). But that's a populist perversion of the movement and everything it stands for. The essence of shlichus is (even if more in idea than in practice) BITUL to the meshaleach.
Thirty, twenty, even ten years ago, you could experience bitul by exiling yourself to a barren wilderness and fighting for Yiddishkeit. Nowadays, you experience bitul by working alongside and even under other guys who are no more or even less talented/intelligent/learned/chasidish than you.
But no! Today's kollel-leit don't want that. They wanna be the lone cowboy.
770 bochur: I fell duty-bound to register a protest.
U.S. intellectual property rules may augment, but not supplant traditional Jewish privacy rules. These are quite clear that people are entitled to their own space not being invaded; indeed they prohibit someone creating a situation in which he may see into someone's home. The examples begin with Bilam's praising the way the Jews' tents are positioned in a way that no one can peer into the other's, through the Talmud in Yuma 4b on to the very beginning of Bava Basra (one may not construct/alter his own home in a way that would enable him to see into his neighbor's), culminating with a famous cherem by Rabbeinu Gershom. The above examples are all the more pertinent, considering the numerous times that the owner of this blog has used the blog/home analogy.
Someone who leaves money where it may be easily stolen may be foolish; stealing it is no less immoral for the fact. The same applies to the pictures being linked to; it is quite unlikely that these sites' owners would consent to their contents being publicized. And please do not insult anyone's intelligence with some position along the lines of "by posting online, they have impliedly consented to have the world see them". Their being foolish and naive for not password protecting their blogs/sites has NOTHING to do with an absolutely unacceptable approach to other people and their life.
Schneur Zalman of NY commenting to Trophy of the Hour:
Firstly one has to ask oneself if proclaiming someone a Rebbe makes him a Rebbe. Frankly I can see a lot of good in making any ethical and moral person with no outstanding chisronos a Rebbe.
On the other hand it can be dangerous and misleading. The Nikolsberger of Monsey Rav Mechele Leibowitz was and is a controversial figure. He has many meshugaaysen and thinks much of himself. For years he was a persona non gratta in the greater Satmar community. But he does know much Chassiduth. As I have written in the past Lubavitch ought to have a Rebbe or at the very least mashpi'im like Breslov. Breslov is led by men like Rabbis Schick, Berland, Dorfman , Kramer, Kenig and Yankev Schachter. All are scholars and spiritual people. Lubavitch is run by oligarchs (Rubashkin, Leviev, Gutnick, Boymelgreen, Malamud, etc.) and middle level managers (A. Shemtov, Cunin, Herson , Kotlarsky and Yudel Krinsky). As long as the oligarchs and the managers run the movement there is no room for serious spiritual leadership in Chabad today.
Oh yes, there are some New Agey Chabad spiritual leaders but these people's message is chiefly designed for the Baale Teshuva, the Out of Town Chabad House members and other borderline Chabadniks. But who is a main line Chabad spiritual leader today whose message carries weight. Certainly not Yoel Kahan or Leibel Groner. As long as the above classes are in power they will not allow spiritual people to the BRETEL.
It is not about me linking to some blog or not. Publishing on Internet is like projecting on the big monitor on Times Square, everyone sees it, regardless of linking. The content and photos are cached, crawled by the spiders and archived forever and ever, even after you take the blog down!
Be careful but my opinion is not worry about it, keep on blogging, the connections you establish with your friends trump all concerns! The gates of the new world have been broken wide open in Lubavitch; there is no stopping it. Keep on linking your spirits with the souls of the world. L�Chaim to Life!
Avi: "The legend isn't that they are gentiles; they are from "Bubbe Yittel" who was pregnant with their great grandfather while her husband was away for business one year. There is a Teshuva from The Divrei Chaim of Tsanz and Satmar Ruv giving a Heter to be engaged with their kids but most Satmars aren�t meshadech with them, but they are a huge family and they are marrying with their cousins."
HirshelTzig: "Lefkowitzes marry other Satmarers as well, I know many personally."
Tzemach Atlas: Can someone produce the tshuvos please?
Our ancestor's request reflected a desire to reach beyond their grasp. To perceive G-d's greatness the way the angels do and to be affected by G-d's presence the way angels are. They knew that this was beyond them, but this did not prevent them from yearning for it.
"Tonight I got a bracha from the Nicholberger rebbe. It was really incredible, and I want to get it down before the details fade more than they already have.
I went in with my father, who had made the appointment, and my siblings. We stood across from this man and I realized that I've never stood in front of a rebbe before. A lubavitcher chossid in many aspects, I'm too young to know what a rebbe is like."
at the very same time and in the very same building, the rabbeim and students sat in their classrooms and bais midrash learning, while turning a blind eye to the horrors being committed. When a few of the victims s